"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For some reason, when I go to parties I just lose every bit of DJness that I have built. I've pretty much mastered C&F in one on one conversations, body language, etc, but once I go to like a house party where people are just messing around, I can't PU for sh*t. I think it's because of other guys, they always dominate the conversation and they always get all the attention by doing all this crazy sh*t, while I'm more of a talker.For example I know a guy that is really quiet, i DESTROY him when it comes to making girls laugh in one on one convo, but at the party he just does lots of funny actions and gets all the girls laughing while I got no attention at all. the girls seem to be entertained by people who just do funny things and act like retards and they don't even pay attention when I try to game them because they're so busy being entertained by the other guys. I always become a WBAFC when i'm in a group... one on one I dominate.. but when there's other guys or other girls and they just start acting crazy my game just seems really weak.. i don't even know why, i'm more of a smooth talker than those other guys who are just acting like freaking clowns.. what should i do?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't worry about "gaming" women at parties.....Do things that "stand out"....It'll grab womens attention to you....

Just play your cards right....
 
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that's the problem... i can't bring myself to do that crazy kind of stuff that the other guys are doing (all this weird stuff like sticking their ass into the girls faces), its just not me and it feels really unnatural
 
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You don't have to do "crazy" things.....depending on what you mean by crazy....You can just be ****y and funny.....Put yourself in the mind of 007 James Bond (sean connery)...If you've seen any of his movies.....do you see how he acts? He's cool and casual about things...no matter how big the crowd...he still gets his....be ****y and funny...and relax.
 
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Look, don't listen to that dude who just posted above me. You're 16 and at any age but ESPECIALLY that age, girls don't want a talkmonster. Being a DJ is not about talking a girl to death. You're boring. You're talking her to death. Be crazy. Have a little fun! It's only unnatural cuz you've never done it before.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Listen to Metal, he knows what he's talking about.

You're just giving excuses for your failures. I'm not the "loud, wild guy" that you're speaking of, but I still get mine. Stick to what you do best, approach a girl one-on-one. If you're any good with conversation, which you said you are, you'll see success.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Look, don't listen to that dude who just posted above me. You're 16 and at any age but ESPECIALLY that age, girls don't want a talkmonster. Being a DJ is not about talking a girl to death. You're boring. You're talking her to death. Be crazy. Have a little fun! It's only unnatural cuz you've never done it before.
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Who said anything about "talking girls to death?" That is some BS you came up with....don't sit here and try to disqualify my opinion because you don't agree.

Acting crazy and having fun are different....acting crazy is busting beer bottles on peoples heads and running around a party butt naked with comb in your hair....

Having "fun" is making jokes, making decent and INTERESTING conversation, mingling around etc....,
 
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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Listen to Metal, he knows what he's talking about.

You're just giving excuses for your failures. I'm not the "loud, wild guy" that you're speaking of, but I still get mine. Stick to what you do best, approach a girl one-on-one. If you're any good with conversation, which you said you are, you'll see success.
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The focus is to "get his" in a comfortable fashion...and obviously, since what he is doing "isn't working," so he needs to change, right?

So, my suggestion modifies his style....so he doesn't have to "act crazy"....acting crazy...and having fun...two different categories.
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
The focus is to "get his" in a comfortable fashion...and obviously, since what he is doing "isn't working," he needs to change, right?

So, my suggestion modifies his style....so he doesn't have to "act crazy"....acting crazy...and having fun...two different categories.
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Alright DJ, I guess you're 4Real. No, he doesn't have to change what he's doing. Maybe he's just hanging out with the same people all the time. If he's any good with one-on-one, which I personally am, he's going to get laid.

4Real.
 
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4Real...of course I am. :cool:.

In this particular situation, he isn't one on one.....he is around many many people.....so, he does have to modify a little "according to him." He has to be comfortable around the crowd, or else he won't be successful.

Think of it like this.....what if the President (of any country), wasn't comfortable speaking to the millions and billions of people that "look up to him."

Yeah, he'd have a hard time exuding the necessary confidence of a leader....and people wouldn't be attracted to that...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm all about having a good debate, but we're obviously not on the same level. It doesn't matter what situation you're in, if you're good with one-on-one conversation, you're going to pull a female sooner or later.

I've been to a few parties in my day and I've always stuck to what I do best, one-on-one conversation. Girls always love a good conversation, party or not.


Good luck to all of you.
 
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There is a difference as to when you're talking around several women....say 15 or maybe more...and you're talking to a single woman one on one......Than one on one talk. But, do want works for you....as I mentioned "do what is most comfortable."

Whatever it is that you do is working for you....but, it's not working for him...so yeah, we are on different levels about his situation.
 
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Everyone should do what is most comfortable to them, but this is what he said is most comfortable to 'him'. You're acting like it isn't possible to pull a girl to the side and talk to her. Even if you're in a big party, you can always run it how you want to.

DJ, I'm not doubting your knowledge of girls, I'm just giving good advice from personal experiences.




Maybe I should post a bunch of pictures to prove myself...Nevermind, that's kind of gay.
 
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