"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I failed a ****-test ....

AlexTheGreat

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I just failed a ****-test with this girl (at least, I did in her mind). Thing is, she was working with this guy on a project, and she litterally was jumping on him (for fun). The whole time, I look at them with a "wtf" kind of face. She takes that for jealousy.

So, my question here is, how to redeem myself from that ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ4Real

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Make her think that you weren't jealous, make her believe that you couldn't believe how beastly women can be over us guys (she was jumping all over this guy) that's a weird site to see you know?
 

AlexTheGreat

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The problem is that now, she thinks she has some effect over me. For example, she was being a ***** to me today (the thing happened 2 days ago). I asked her jokingly why, and she answered "cuz it's fun!" from which, I take it, is her way of saying that it's fun to see my reaction to stuff.

I know the girl's interested, and she's ****-testing me again with the *****iness of today (to which I answered correctly, either ignoring her or making fun of her back for "being such a *****" lol), but if it keeps going like this, it's really gonna get weird.
 

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Then if a reaction is what she wants then you do the opposite. Just ignore her and openly talk to other women.
 
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