"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I failed a ****-test ....

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AlexTheGreat

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I just failed a ****-test with this girl (at least, I did in her mind). Thing is, she was working with this guy on a project, and she litterally was jumping on him (for fun). The whole time, I look at them with a "wtf" kind of face. She takes that for jealousy.

So, my question here is, how to redeem myself from that ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Make her think that you weren't jealous, make her believe that you couldn't believe how beastly women can be over us guys (she was jumping all over this guy) that's a weird site to see you know?
 
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The problem is that now, she thinks she has some effect over me. For example, she was being a ***** to me today (the thing happened 2 days ago). I asked her jokingly why, and she answered "cuz it's fun!" from which, I take it, is her way of saying that it's fun to see my reaction to stuff.

I know the girl's interested, and she's ****-testing me again with the *****iness of today (to which I answered correctly, either ignoring her or making fun of her back for "being such a *****" lol), but if it keeps going like this, it's really gonna get weird.
 
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Then if a reaction is what she wants then you do the opposite. Just ignore her and openly talk to other women.
 
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