I easily get attached

[ddubdubw]

Ive been hanging out w/ this girl that has a BF. I know, I know just leave them alone but it was worth a shot. So I took her to my apt. today and we start making out in my bed and then I finger her while she plays w/ me. I ask if she wants to go any farther and she says it wouldnt be a good idea. So I play it off but wonder WTF. Hell she went this far and she doesnt want to go farther. She told me earlier today that she didnt know what to do about the situation, me and her BF.

My problem is that I get attached too easily. I know it wont work b/c shes going to school 3 hours away and I wont ever see her. Do any of you other guys have problems getting attached with girls that you start to hang out with? The reason may be that I just got out of a LTR. Im used to having a companion I guess.

 

[Gold Heart]

It's easy to get attached and easy to get bored. Remember that. Do you want to be attached with a girl who so easily cheated on her boyfriend and now wants to cover it up?

No. His loss, your gain, but never ask her out. Can't trust her. She didn't even resist you.

 

[PeeGee]

What some people say in such situations is to "fuk ten *****es", meaning if you have "options" as David D puts it, you are less likely to have the one-itis.

So just get out there and get more women if that's what it takes to have a realistic view of the world.

 

[ddubdubw]

Originally posted by Gold Heart
It's easy to get attached and easy to get bored. Remember that. Do you want to be attached with a girl who so easily cheated on her boyfriend and now wants to cover it up?

No. His loss, your gain, but never ask her out. Can't trust her. She didn't even resist you.

she told me that she has kissed a couple of guys while she was dating her BF and she told him that she had done so. She also told me that she told him about me. She did say that I was different than the other guys though???

Pee Gee

i think youre right..I need to NEXT this girl (or at least keep her on the back burner) and go find some more.

thanks guys

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by ddubdubw
she told me that she has kissed a couple of guys while she was dating her BF and she told him that she had done so. She also told me that she told him about me. She did say that I was different than the other guys though???

Pee Gee

i think youre right..I need to NEXT this girl (or at least keep her on the back burner) and go find some more.

thanks guys

LOL...What a crock of shyt!!! She's NEVER told her bf about any guy she's hooked up with while with him. Why would she? He'd dump her @ss in a minute! This girl is BAD NEWS if your getting attached. If its just a play friend then keep hooking up with her and don't take her out or anything like that.

BTW she's already lying to you, she's a w-hore messing around with plenty of guys behind her bf's back. And you SHOULDN'T have asked her if she wanted to go further!! You should have kept at it, got her horny and fuvked her silly @ss.



PIMP

 

[ddubdubw]

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
LOL...What a crock of shyt!!! She's NEVER told her bf about any guy she's hooked up with while with him. Why would she? He'd dump her @ss in a minute! This girl is BAD NEWS if your getting attached. If its just a play friend then keep hooking up with her and don't take her out or anything like that.

BTW she's already lying to you, she's a w-hore messing around with plenty of guys behind her bf's back. And you SHOULDN'T have asked her if she wanted to go further!! You should have kept at it, got her horny and fuvked her silly @ss.



PIMP

now that I think about it , you may be right. I wouldnt tolerate her shyt either if I were him. This is her last week here then she goes to her grandparents and then school. Should I take her out one last time, confront her about it, , or both respectively??

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

Originally posted by ddubdubw
one last time, confront her about it, , or both respectively??

No. Let it go.

And never ASK girls permission for anything. If they don't like it they will tell you.

 

[ddubdubw]

Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
No. Let it go.

And never ASK girls permission for anything. If they don't like it they will tell you.

ahhh...another lesson learned. Thats what its all about, right?

 

[Blue Phoenix]

That's bad!

Getting easily attached is not a very good thing to do, especially to W-hores!

These types are always messing around with a bunch of guys, all you'll have is a headache/heartache.

They're superficial, and they can hardly maintain a relatinonship. They're never satisfied and thus are always looking for new guys to bang.

If you want, just mess with her but don't go further! It's a forbidden zone. You cannot trust her!

Don't confront her, it's useless, just ignore her and move on!

As player supreme said once, we have to identify with which type we are interacting. If she's a good girl = LTR, if she's a hor = just sex or nothing else, and so on!

Once you can recognize the types, it gets easier not to get hurt!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by ddubdubw
Ive been hanging out w/ this girl that has a BF. I know, I know just leave them alone but it was worth a shot. So I took her to my apt. today and we start making out in my bed and then I finger her while she plays w/ me. I ask if she wants to go any farther and she says it wouldnt be a good idea. So I play it off but wonder WTF. Hell she went this far and she doesnt want to go farther. She told me earlier today that she didnt know what to do about the situation, me and her BF.

My problem is that I get attached too easily. I know it wont work b/c shes going to school 3 hours away and I wont ever see her. Do any of you other guys have problems getting attached with girls that you start to hang out with? The reason may be that I just got out of a LTR. Im used to having a companion I guess.

I came out of an LTR last year and the first 5 women I got involved with all had boyfriends. In fact, your situation is exactly what happened to me with the second girl. This is the way young girls operate these days - accept it and move on to the next girl that has a boyfriend, because you are going to encounter this alot. I too was getting too attached too soon because I was used to having a woman around. You will get over it, trust me. You will harden to it - now get out there and fool around with as many women as possible - boyfriend or no boyfriend.

Just don't take the ones with boyfriends seriously. It's not you, it's them. Young girls go through that faze of not knowing if the guy they are with is the right one, and you have to face up to the reality that this sh*t goes on with young females more often then not - because they are all f*cked in the head at that age.

I was worried about getting too attached but I seem to have gotten over this little problem when I realised that 95% of girls between 17 and 25 are hors and should never be taken seriously.

I'm just thankful that at 33 I can still attract 23 year olds. Have fun when the opportunity presents itself, and chalk each one up to a learning experience.

 

[Player_Supreme]

When you stop hitting your head against the barn door, the pain goes away. Incase your kinda slow fella, if you keep doing with women what you been doing, you are going to get the same results.

NOW LISTEN CAREFULLY

When you show tons of love and attention to women...this is going to be hard for you to accept but :


THEY FAWKING LOSE INTEREST IN YOU

OK...DO YOU NEED ME TO REPEAT THIS?

THEY FAWKING LOSE INTEREST IN YOU

I do hope you got it now.

What is important in the equation is HER interest level in you. Your focusing on the wrong shyt playboy. YOU should be focusing on HER, and how much she likes YOU.

Then see how much you stay enthralled with her.

Now when you become a symp, your giving her no FAWKING CHALLENGE You dig!

Don't give away the whole farm. Make her do some work to earn your affection. That way she will actually believe that she cares for you.

 

[Player_Supreme]

dam double and triple post

 

[Player_Supreme]