"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dropped the ball on a plate. Can I recover or leave it alone?

jackhamma

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I will keep this short and sweet.

Met a plate out a month ago while I was out with a buddy. We hit it off. I got her number, we went on a date. We banged on first date. I then over 4 weeks continued to invite her out and bang every date. She is 21 and real cute. Attention span is horrible, stoner chick etc but a real fun lay.

Last hang out/bang we had I found out she JUST got out of a relationship and wasn't looking for anything serious. I agreed I was looking for just fun as well. Two days later made a comment that my land lady who saw her with me said her and I would make great offspring and we look really "hot" together lol. I thought it was funny and she even responded laughing her ass off coming back with jokes about it. Then a few days later when I asked her out to a show...she never responded. I realized telling her what my land lady said 9/10 scared her away. I waited a week and texted "hey whats up" no response.

Was just thinking today since it has been 2 weeks if there is any power play I have here. Reach out and try to get the plate spinning again. I got nudes of this girl that I forgot I had and just started thinking about banging her again. Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zinc4

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Meh, I got ghosted on twice in the last month by hos. Who cares...don't take it personal.
 

wifehunter

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Aways let women bring up the relationship stuff, it needs to be their idea... even if you joke, it will be taken as a hint. Lesson learned!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maximus Rex

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She's a plate why do you care?
 
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