"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I dropped the ball on a plate. Can I recover or leave it alone?

jackhamma

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I will keep this short and sweet.

Met a plate out a month ago while I was out with a buddy. We hit it off. I got her number, we went on a date. We banged on first date. I then over 4 weeks continued to invite her out and bang every date. She is 21 and real cute. Attention span is horrible, stoner chick etc but a real fun lay.

Last hang out/bang we had I found out she JUST got out of a relationship and wasn't looking for anything serious. I agreed I was looking for just fun as well. Two days later made a comment that my land lady who saw her with me said her and I would make great offspring and we look really "hot" together lol. I thought it was funny and she even responded laughing her ass off coming back with jokes about it. Then a few days later when I asked her out to a show...she never responded. I realized telling her what my land lady said 9/10 scared her away. I waited a week and texted "hey whats up" no response.

Was just thinking today since it has been 2 weeks if there is any power play I have here. Reach out and try to get the plate spinning again. I got nudes of this girl that I forgot I had and just started thinking about banging her again. Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zinc4

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Meh, I got ghosted on twice in the last month by hos. Who cares...don't take it personal.
 

wifehunter

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Aways let women bring up the relationship stuff, it needs to be their idea... even if you joke, it will be taken as a hint. Lesson learned!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maximus Rex

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She's a plate why do you care?
 
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