"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dropped of the face of the earth

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Original post: whoops....i kinda dropped of the face of the earth....i was starting like a DJ bootcamp thingy when my computer broke...well now i got it back, bought DoubleYourDating by David D. and COMPLETELY changed my life...just though i'd let you guys know...and i'm willing to lend some of my time to restarting the HS DJ bootcamp as long as i have like 2-4 other DJs that will help me out...and by DJs i mean people who ACTUALLY know what they are doing....

Send an IM or something

edit: OK i have enough people to make this thing, we will make a new thread for sign ups (the people who will particiapate in it) very soon
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd be willing to participate...

I saw you have sbc, where do you live?
 
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Any takers??
I want to start this thing up again...
does this discussion forum have any REAL DJs left?
 
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I'm in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inquire

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high school dj boot camp? ill be in too if so. i can do two boot camps.
 
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ok now that we have people willing to join...now we have to MAKE it.....so what i need now is some people who know how the game works and how to play it....i'm calling out all the real DJs to help out all the little wannabes...if we actually do this...then maybe we will stop getting all these useless posts like...."how do i know if she likes me?" and stuff like that...so once again...

CALLING ALL DJS!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO

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Yo sly im willin to perticipate as long as ur willin to do all the hard work and write it? lol....tell me when ur gonna start it.
 
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im going to start it in time....as soon as i get 2-3 more guys to help me out with it...because i cant do it by myself..and i have other things to do....Gtac01 already said he would help out, now i just need a couple more...send me an IM if your interested in Founding this....but make sure you have REAL WORLD experience..or else its a no-go
 
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They continued the HSDJChallenge, by email.

Wasn't there a group started?

Oh, btw, I am a DJ. lol. And I might be willing to help out on the challenge, though my life is hectic atm. I never seem to pull through this, and I am already doing the DJBC from the bible. It's all cool.

My AIM is aisaac2008 that is also my Yahoo

My MSN is [email protected]

Add me whoever, if you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Inquire

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too bad for u guys but i'm outs. i just had a realization of my life as i took a personal reflection of myself. im quitting many thangs and going to go on a hiatus from sosuave. i am done with bootcamp for now. i am done with many thangs. i need time to think, i have lost myself in the don juan thang. need to step outside and take a breather. i think i am actually goin nuts. peace outs, im outs!
 
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Well I just got out of a very dramatic point in my life... and I want to make a change. Even though I dodn't know what you guys do in a bootcamp I'm willing to join.
Aim: Frankalex429
email: [email protected]
 
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I'm in. Let's get this thing started.

I'm already knee-deep in ass this year, but I wanna be neck-deep, dammit! I don't wanna get complacent, that was my biggest mistake last year.

It's on!:cool:
 
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Originally posted by StrangeButTrue
I'm in. Let's get this thing started.

I'm already knee-deep in ass this year, but I wanna be neck-deep, dammit! I don't wanna get complacent, that was my biggest mistake last year.

It's on!:cool:
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HEy are u a freshman?
 
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