"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i dropped of the face of the earth

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Original post: whoops....i kinda dropped of the face of the earth....i was starting like a DJ bootcamp thingy when my computer broke...well now i got it back, bought DoubleYourDating by David D. and COMPLETELY changed my life...just though i'd let you guys know...and i'm willing to lend some of my time to restarting the HS DJ bootcamp as long as i have like 2-4 other DJs that will help me out...and by DJs i mean people who ACTUALLY know what they are doing....

Send an IM or something

edit: OK i have enough people to make this thing, we will make a new thread for sign ups (the people who will particiapate in it) very soon
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd be willing to participate...

I saw you have sbc, where do you live?
 
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Any takers??
I want to start this thing up again...
does this discussion forum have any REAL DJs left?
 
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I'm in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inquire

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high school dj boot camp? ill be in too if so. i can do two boot camps.
 
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ok now that we have people willing to join...now we have to MAKE it.....so what i need now is some people who know how the game works and how to play it....i'm calling out all the real DJs to help out all the little wannabes...if we actually do this...then maybe we will stop getting all these useless posts like...."how do i know if she likes me?" and stuff like that...so once again...

CALLING ALL DJS!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO

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Yo sly im willin to perticipate as long as ur willin to do all the hard work and write it? lol....tell me when ur gonna start it.
 
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im going to start it in time....as soon as i get 2-3 more guys to help me out with it...because i cant do it by myself..and i have other things to do....Gtac01 already said he would help out, now i just need a couple more...send me an IM if your interested in Founding this....but make sure you have REAL WORLD experience..or else its a no-go
 
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They continued the HSDJChallenge, by email.

Wasn't there a group started?

Oh, btw, I am a DJ. lol. And I might be willing to help out on the challenge, though my life is hectic atm. I never seem to pull through this, and I am already doing the DJBC from the bible. It's all cool.

My AIM is aisaac2008 that is also my Yahoo

My MSN is [email protected]

Add me whoever, if you want.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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too bad for u guys but i'm outs. i just had a realization of my life as i took a personal reflection of myself. im quitting many thangs and going to go on a hiatus from sosuave. i am done with bootcamp for now. i am done with many thangs. i need time to think, i have lost myself in the don juan thang. need to step outside and take a breather. i think i am actually goin nuts. peace outs, im outs!
 
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Well I just got out of a very dramatic point in my life... and I want to make a change. Even though I dodn't know what you guys do in a bootcamp I'm willing to join.
Aim: Frankalex429
email: [email protected]
 
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I'm in. Let's get this thing started.

I'm already knee-deep in ass this year, but I wanna be neck-deep, dammit! I don't wanna get complacent, that was my biggest mistake last year.

It's on!:cool:
 
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Originally posted by StrangeButTrue
I'm in. Let's get this thing started.

I'm already knee-deep in ass this year, but I wanna be neck-deep, dammit! I don't wanna get complacent, that was my biggest mistake last year.

It's on!:cool:
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HEy are u a freshman?
 
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