"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I downloaded an Alpha Male body lenguage PDF but I don't quite understand it
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
2. You read Diesels guide to bulking up
3. You implement it by going to the gym and eating well
4. After a while your body language will be the best it can be
Don't try to fake it by trying to change your body language mentally, I did this for way to long and it never really worked all that well. The reason is you think too much. Now lifting however will take care of bad body language.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
sam21 said:and that's because my english isn't very good.
So, it would be nice if you guys post good body lenguage tips. How to walk, sit, where to put your hands and stuff
I'll probably understand you guys..
cya :box:
Send me the e-book and I'll help you understand it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Lifting can help in two ways.
A) If you do it correctly and develop a balanced body, you're going to have Perceived improved body language automatically through improved appearance. People use the halo affect to attribute good traits to people they already perceive positively. Good looks (in this case, a nice body) therefore provides a compounding return. There is also the arguement that the muscles will provide better posture, stance, etc. I am not really qualified to comment, but I guess it might be true. I think I'd join a gym with a good personal trainer or take Weight Lifting as an instructed, college course if that's available. Some courses just turn you loose in the gym, but even so you'll get at least an orientation and your progress will be measured. Plus, it's generally cheap at community colleges compared to a gym pass.
B) You will definitely increase your confidence. Even if you never plan to use those muscles to intimidate other people, you cannot help but feel more confident for having them. Since much body language is actually generated internally, this new internal dialogue will literally show in your lack of wussie mannerisms. See in third grade when girls didn't like sex, you could be a total wuss and be the cool kid. Now, you're confised, because you still think being a wussie can be cool. NO. Now that you're grown women want guys who are going to be good in the sack/around the house. It's better to go overboard on the tough guy stuff than the wussie stuff if you're not sure where you are in this process. Actually, in the beginning it doesn't matter as much as in a relationship. Girl's really get picky about you being a wuss once you're past the 1 month mark, good looks and personality will carry you for so long even if you act a little wussie. If you continue acting like a wussie, she will eventually get rid of you.
Beyond that, watch guys who are cool. Watch what they do. Listen to how they will bust on a girl is she's playing with her eye or something uncool. Watch adventurer types too that dress cool and talk about climbing on buildings and stuff for another perspective on what can work. Lean back instead of forward when you're not sure what to do. Talk louder rather than lean in or use hand motions to call her closer. Realize in clubs you can almost always hand a girl's hand while talking to her. They will actually be much more comfortable when you do this. I don't think you need a book for this stuff.