“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"I don't want to see you when I feel like this"

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"I don't want to see you when I feel like this"

Ever have a girl give you that line???? The basically say they are upset and are having problems and need to be alone...... Is that true or female bs?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Jayer said:
"I don't want to see you when I feel like this"

Ever have a girl give you that line???? The basically say they are upset and are having problems and need to be alone...... Is that true or female bs?
What's up Jayer,

Hey,this is a weird comment man. Weird,but there IS a reason why she would say this. It would help to have a little background first,though. Like how long you've known this girl,under what context did she say this,(like were you on the phone,or out on a date,or whatever). Also,when she said she didn't want to be around you when you feel like this,did she say or explain what "this" is?
Because honestly,she could be having some emotion that makes her not want to not be around you,although that is HIGHLY unlikely. but like you said,it could also just be some sort of excuse as well.
 

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She could just be feeling unattractive or have a massive pimple on her face or something.
 

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Igetit! said:
What's up Jayer,

Hey,this is a weird comment man. Weird,but there IS a reason why she would say this. It would help to have a little background first,though. Like how long you've known this girl,under what context did she say this,(like were you on the phone,or out on a date,or whatever). Also,when she said she didn't want to be around you when you feel like this,did she say or explain what "this" is?
Because honestly,she could be having some emotion that makes her not want to not be around you,although that is HIGHLY unlikely. but like you said,it could also just be some sort of excuse as well.

Its basically a plate I have been spinning... one that I didn't meet through my approach journal but who has kept me a bit delayed in finishing my approaches because I've had such a great time with her. She is basically moving away soon

Basically it was over the phone... I basically turned AFC and she ended up giving me the LJBF as of lately... but anyway its like this... we had sex last week and then after she invited me to a party in which we hooked up and possible would have had sex again had not she gotten sick and had all her friends around..... But I basically was left with the impression that she wanted to see me alone asap.......

So I kind of misread a situation on saturday and thought she dissed me to go out with some other guy and sent her some somewhat mean text messages saying I was done with her....... I did end up talking to her after that and basically admitted it was my misunderstanding...

So I talked to her on Sunday and I basically was all AFC... saying all mushy things and that I needed to see her blah blah blah... She said that she is in a bad mood and has a lot of problems going on in her life and wouldn't be good company for me while she was in that mood.... I kind of got mad again felt she was playing with me and to make a long story short she ended up LJBFING me Yesterday via email..... She basically explained it in the whole "Its me not you and it would be best to just be friends for now since she has so many issues and is moving away" Well this time I accepted it... played it cool and acted like I don't care.... we messaged for a bit... and she is actually moving away soon and says she wants to see me at least 1 last time and give me a hug before I go...

I always knew she was moving away and I basically wanted to spend as much time as I could with her before she did.... but now it kind of went downhill.... Do I still have a chance to get some more booty?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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