Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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'i don't want to like you anymore'

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Ok after months of ball breaking ground work, hb10 tells me she likes me. after 2 weeks of no progress, she tells me she has 'decided she doesn't want to like me anymore' (wtf)
I know you guys will insist all girls are the same, but she insists that she is not normal and is reaaly weird with the whole 'liking people thing'.
she's never kissed a guy and is really shy.
what is my next move?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ENIGMA16

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It's a sh!t test and she wants you to make a move. Go for it.
 
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hahahah....oposite ends of the spectrum advice......

why not.....

combine them!

try your move on her then, when she flakes, NEXT her......

after that look back and wonder why you spent months of your life on this

p*ssy shouldn't be this much work

Over and Out
 
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Wait, 6 weeks into this and you still haven't kiss her? How old are you? Really, you should kiss a lot quicker, preferable on first or second date.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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boomerick said:
hahahah....oposite ends of the spectrum advice......

why not.....

combine them!

try your move on her then, when she flakes, NEXT her......

after that look back and wonder why you spent months of your life on this

p*ssy shouldn't be this much work

Over and Out
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This.
 
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SandHawk said:
Wait, 6 weeks into this and you still haven't kiss her? How old are you? Really, you should kiss a lot quicker, preferable on first or second date.
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Yeah no wonder she is acting weird. Women want action as much as men do and if you are not man enough to give it to her she will lose interest and look to somebody else. Did you say 6 weeks? You're lucky she hasn't pulled the friend card on you yet for not taking care of business and escalating.
 
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Why are you hung up on just one girl in the first place? Trailing a single attractive girl without any other prospects clouds your judgment. I haven't seen this girl and I already know she's not a 10. Stop putting so much of your focus on this girl and expand your horizons to give yourself some objectivity to the situation. You're like that drunk guy who lost his keys some where but keeps looking under the same lamp post because that's where the light is.
 
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mojo16 said:
Ok after months of ball breaking ground work, hb10 tells me she likes me. after 2 weeks of no progress, she tells me she has 'decided she doesn't want to like me anymore' (wtf)
I know you guys will insist all girls are the same, but she insists that she is not normal and is reaaly weird with the whole 'liking people thing'.
she's never kissed a guy and is really shy.
what is my next move?
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You waited too late to escalate and now you'll masturbate. You had the iron hot and didn't strike it. Damn. Then you're developing a Oneitis? Oh hell no!

Judge Nismo-4 is gonna send you to Wussy Mountain, North Dakota!

Now think about what you did and next time handle your goddamn business! You have testosterone right? Stop being scared of it!

And move the hell on to another girl since she is probably gettin' railed as you read this!
 
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lol my man nismo is crazy wussy mountain yea hurry up and get there
she is lying about never kissing a guy thats for daNN sure
on on on to the next one
READ THE DJ BIBLE B4 UR NEXT ENCOUNTER WITH A FEMALE MOJO
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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