"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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'i don't want to like you anymore'

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Ok after months of ball breaking ground work, hb10 tells me she likes me. after 2 weeks of no progress, she tells me she has 'decided she doesn't want to like me anymore' (wtf)
I know you guys will insist all girls are the same, but she insists that she is not normal and is reaaly weird with the whole 'liking people thing'.
she's never kissed a guy and is really shy.
what is my next move?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ENIGMA16

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It's a sh!t test and she wants you to make a move. Go for it.
 
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hahahah....oposite ends of the spectrum advice......

why not.....

combine them!

try your move on her then, when she flakes, NEXT her......

after that look back and wonder why you spent months of your life on this

p*ssy shouldn't be this much work

Over and Out
 
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Wait, 6 weeks into this and you still haven't kiss her? How old are you? Really, you should kiss a lot quicker, preferable on first or second date.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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boomerick said:
hahahah....oposite ends of the spectrum advice......

why not.....

combine them!

try your move on her then, when she flakes, NEXT her......

after that look back and wonder why you spent months of your life on this

p*ssy shouldn't be this much work

Over and Out
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This.
 
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SandHawk said:
Wait, 6 weeks into this and you still haven't kiss her? How old are you? Really, you should kiss a lot quicker, preferable on first or second date.
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Yeah no wonder she is acting weird. Women want action as much as men do and if you are not man enough to give it to her she will lose interest and look to somebody else. Did you say 6 weeks? You're lucky she hasn't pulled the friend card on you yet for not taking care of business and escalating.
 
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Why are you hung up on just one girl in the first place? Trailing a single attractive girl without any other prospects clouds your judgment. I haven't seen this girl and I already know she's not a 10. Stop putting so much of your focus on this girl and expand your horizons to give yourself some objectivity to the situation. You're like that drunk guy who lost his keys some where but keeps looking under the same lamp post because that's where the light is.
 
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mojo16 said:
Ok after months of ball breaking ground work, hb10 tells me she likes me. after 2 weeks of no progress, she tells me she has 'decided she doesn't want to like me anymore' (wtf)
I know you guys will insist all girls are the same, but she insists that she is not normal and is reaaly weird with the whole 'liking people thing'.
she's never kissed a guy and is really shy.
what is my next move?
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You waited too late to escalate and now you'll masturbate. You had the iron hot and didn't strike it. Damn. Then you're developing a Oneitis? Oh hell no!

Judge Nismo-4 is gonna send you to Wussy Mountain, North Dakota!

Now think about what you did and next time handle your goddamn business! You have testosterone right? Stop being scared of it!

And move the hell on to another girl since she is probably gettin' railed as you read this!
 
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lol my man nismo is crazy wussy mountain yea hurry up and get there
she is lying about never kissing a guy thats for daNN sure
on on on to the next one
READ THE DJ BIBLE B4 UR NEXT ENCOUNTER WITH A FEMALE MOJO
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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