"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i dont want sex that bad?

Crazy Asian

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u guys all seem to go after one main thing, and it's sex.
so far, i've had 2 girls literally begging me to go and fvck them.
but i've always just made some excuse to not go.
i don't really want to have sex.
am i just scared?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you masturbate often? If you do, you may be. If not, your sex drive may simply be different.
 

Crazy Asian

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is everyday often ?
:)
 

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Before I lost my virginity, I had a total of like 6 girls ask me to go round their place and have sex with them, including when I was 13/14, but also 15-17.

I also made some excuse. Looking back, it was NOT because I didn't want sex. I most definitely did. I was 'scared', or anxious so to speak. Just bite the bullet mate, you're probably making excuses due to anxiety of some sort.
 
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Do you think your scared or did you just happen to throw that into your post for no reason.

I guess the drive to procreate isn't strong in you. And that is ok. Some of us our born to be breeders and have a strong sex drive and others just are not.

Internet nerds I would say are not born to breed, so be it. Most average guys are scared also but won't turn it down.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Warrior74

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Yah. Your scared. And you whack off too much. But mostly your scared. I bet you see all sorts of consequences flashing through your subconcious when you think about it.
 

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im just going to be very frank here. if u want to but your scared don't worry about it man. if its about the size **** and a girl seeing ur d!ck, just know that your not only seeing her V but her tits as well. just get some experience, if they do say **** just deny it and be like y would i f**k you. i was goin to go down on u but ur p*ss* stank so much i left. not my fault it stank, so stop talking ****. when ur walking away be like u ain't go no tits either. pretty sure she'll shut up.

um.. only do that if she talks **** about u man, show her how men roll, we're not scared to tell it how it is or spit sh!t right back at them...

i'm asian too man, trust me u got it in ur blood to be cold.

just go for it and enjoy the times while u can. if u have the chance take it. i had many decent chances where if i played it right i would have scored but being major AFC back then i blew them all.

I'm 5'11, have a player type attitude but when it comes to girls i like, i go totally afc. i'd give myself a 8.5/9 for looks.

play the game now and get rid of the afc attitude. looks will open doors but the afc attitude will shut them close as fast as they opened, i know from experience.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
u guys all seem to go after one main thing, and it's sex.
so far, i've had 2 girls literally begging me to go and fvck them.
but i've always just made some excuse to not go.
i don't really want to have sex.
am i just scared?
You are not scared, the girls were not hot enough for you to have sex.

If a hot girl with a good body gave you a taste of what sex is like, you would go at it in 5 seconds and beg her to have sex with you.
 

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That's my problem -- all the women that want to f'uck me are really low quality in my mind.
 
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