"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i dont want sex that bad?

Crazy Asian

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u guys all seem to go after one main thing, and it's sex.
so far, i've had 2 girls literally begging me to go and fvck them.
but i've always just made some excuse to not go.
i don't really want to have sex.
am i just scared?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you masturbate often? If you do, you may be. If not, your sex drive may simply be different.
 

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is everyday often ?
:)
 

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Before I lost my virginity, I had a total of like 6 girls ask me to go round their place and have sex with them, including when I was 13/14, but also 15-17.

I also made some excuse. Looking back, it was NOT because I didn't want sex. I most definitely did. I was 'scared', or anxious so to speak. Just bite the bullet mate, you're probably making excuses due to anxiety of some sort.
 
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Do you think your scared or did you just happen to throw that into your post for no reason.

I guess the drive to procreate isn't strong in you. And that is ok. Some of us our born to be breeders and have a strong sex drive and others just are not.

Internet nerds I would say are not born to breed, so be it. Most average guys are scared also but won't turn it down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yah. Your scared. And you whack off too much. But mostly your scared. I bet you see all sorts of consequences flashing through your subconcious when you think about it.
 

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im just going to be very frank here. if u want to but your scared don't worry about it man. if its about the size **** and a girl seeing ur d!ck, just know that your not only seeing her V but her tits as well. just get some experience, if they do say **** just deny it and be like y would i f**k you. i was goin to go down on u but ur p*ss* stank so much i left. not my fault it stank, so stop talking ****. when ur walking away be like u ain't go no tits either. pretty sure she'll shut up.

um.. only do that if she talks **** about u man, show her how men roll, we're not scared to tell it how it is or spit sh!t right back at them...

i'm asian too man, trust me u got it in ur blood to be cold.

just go for it and enjoy the times while u can. if u have the chance take it. i had many decent chances where if i played it right i would have scored but being major AFC back then i blew them all.

I'm 5'11, have a player type attitude but when it comes to girls i like, i go totally afc. i'd give myself a 8.5/9 for looks.

play the game now and get rid of the afc attitude. looks will open doors but the afc attitude will shut them close as fast as they opened, i know from experience.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
u guys all seem to go after one main thing, and it's sex.
so far, i've had 2 girls literally begging me to go and fvck them.
but i've always just made some excuse to not go.
i don't really want to have sex.
am i just scared?
You are not scared, the girls were not hot enough for you to have sex.

If a hot girl with a good body gave you a taste of what sex is like, you would go at it in 5 seconds and beg her to have sex with you.
 

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That's my problem -- all the women that want to f'uck me are really low quality in my mind.
 
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