"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't wanna lose my girl over my past..

bearfan34201

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I've got a great girlfriend, one that I know a lot of guys on here would love to have. Brings me breakfast whenever I work, pays for movies/dinner(atleast offers), very very cute, complete virgin(never did anything besides make-out with any guy. Until me). Treats me great, has a great personality, etc ya know?

So I have a big mouth and tell some people of what I've done in my past. MILFS, 3somes, getting a ******* at my work, etc. I think it got around to my girlfriend as she asked about a *******. She siad she heard about it through one of her friends from someone. She also told her that she hasn't told her 80% of the stuff I've done or shes heard of cause she thinks it'll hurt her, and shes looking out for her. I just got talking to my girlfriend and she said she doesn't believe any of the stories and she knows me.. The only problem is that there true stories. And I told her that I've done some **** in my past that I didn't want her knowing cause I didn't want it to effect us. I said that I've never cheated on her or anything, and she knows that.. She reassured me everything is fine and she doesn't want me to be upset.. But at the same time I don't want to tell her what I've done nor let it effect us.

I'm surprised I haven't kicked the **** out of the kid who told her friends yet.. I told him cause he asked, telling him to keep it between us. And look what he does. Unbelievable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sav

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i think what happened in the past should stay in the past.... its up to you to figure out how to get that sentiment across to ur girlfriend...
 

KontrollerX

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That kid is trying to break you two up because he's a jealous b!tch and probably hopes your girl comes to him.

Whenever your girlfriend brings this stuff up just tell her kindly that you won't confirm or deny rumours and its best to let the past whatever that may be remain the past for the future health of your relationship.

P.S: Kick that kid's ass the next time you get the chance.
 
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