"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't wanna lose my girl over my past..

bearfan34201

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I've got a great girlfriend, one that I know a lot of guys on here would love to have. Brings me breakfast whenever I work, pays for movies/dinner(atleast offers), very very cute, complete virgin(never did anything besides make-out with any guy. Until me). Treats me great, has a great personality, etc ya know?

So I have a big mouth and tell some people of what I've done in my past. MILFS, 3somes, getting a ******* at my work, etc. I think it got around to my girlfriend as she asked about a *******. She siad she heard about it through one of her friends from someone. She also told her that she hasn't told her 80% of the stuff I've done or shes heard of cause she thinks it'll hurt her, and shes looking out for her. I just got talking to my girlfriend and she said she doesn't believe any of the stories and she knows me.. The only problem is that there true stories. And I told her that I've done some **** in my past that I didn't want her knowing cause I didn't want it to effect us. I said that I've never cheated on her or anything, and she knows that.. She reassured me everything is fine and she doesn't want me to be upset.. But at the same time I don't want to tell her what I've done nor let it effect us.

I'm surprised I haven't kicked the **** out of the kid who told her friends yet.. I told him cause he asked, telling him to keep it between us. And look what he does. Unbelievable.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sav

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i think what happened in the past should stay in the past.... its up to you to figure out how to get that sentiment across to ur girlfriend...
 

KontrollerX

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That kid is trying to break you two up because he's a jealous b!tch and probably hopes your girl comes to him.

Whenever your girlfriend brings this stuff up just tell her kindly that you won't confirm or deny rumours and its best to let the past whatever that may be remain the past for the future health of your relationship.

P.S: Kick that kid's ass the next time you get the chance.
 
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