“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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Paintballguy

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I'm trying to setup a second date with this girl I went out with. Today, I asked her if she wanted to go to the carnival but is giving the maybe answer. Thats the one thing that drives me insane, I cant stand the indecisive answers. Either tell me yes or no.

But anyways, the first date I had with her was awesome. I took her out to play putt putt and we were exchanging a lot of Kino. She was even grabbing my ass and such when I was up. And to top it off, I got the kiss at the end.

How should I pursue?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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There is no such thing as maybe. Mind you, carnival is a good date idea, she could be waiting for her friends on other plans. But hey since she picked up the phone for the second date, that's not too bad. You may be still doing good.
 

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Well for whatever reason she isn't that interested in you. Her saying "maybe" might as well be:

"I'm waiting for something better to do that night but if all my plans fall through then I might as well not sit at home alone so I'll go with you to the carnival."
 

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flexion_ said:
Well for whatever reason she isn't that interested in you. Her saying "maybe" might as well be:

"I'm waiting for something better to do that night but if all my plans fall through then I might as well not sit at home alone so I'll go with you to the carnival."
this is what im afraid of.... hoping its not that.

its what I get for trying to pull two dates in a day. I'm taking this other girl out tonight anyways.
 
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