"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm trying to setup a second date with this girl I went out with. Today, I asked her if she wanted to go to the carnival but is giving the maybe answer. Thats the one thing that drives me insane, I cant stand the indecisive answers. Either tell me yes or no.

But anyways, the first date I had with her was awesome. I took her out to play putt putt and we were exchanging a lot of Kino. She was even grabbing my ass and such when I was up. And to top it off, I got the kiss at the end.

How should I pursue?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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There is no such thing as maybe. Mind you, carnival is a good date idea, she could be waiting for her friends on other plans. But hey since she picked up the phone for the second date, that's not too bad. You may be still doing good.
 
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Well for whatever reason she isn't that interested in you. Her saying "maybe" might as well be:

"I'm waiting for something better to do that night but if all my plans fall through then I might as well not sit at home alone so I'll go with you to the carnival."
 
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flexion_ said:
Well for whatever reason she isn't that interested in you. Her saying "maybe" might as well be:

"I'm waiting for something better to do that night but if all my plans fall through then I might as well not sit at home alone so I'll go with you to the carnival."
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this is what im afraid of.... hoping its not that.

its what I get for trying to pull two dates in a day. I'm taking this other girl out tonight anyways.
 
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