"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't understand women..
- Thread starter doback
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Splendidostring
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 4, 2007
- Messages
- 106
- Reaction score
- 0
The bible can be found at the bottom of the page.
lastresort
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 10, 2009
- Messages
- 11
- Reaction score
- 0
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lastresort
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 10, 2009
- Messages
- 11
- Reaction score
- 0
yet its trueSnowman23 said:
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Women seem to have constant mood swings and pick up on stuff that us men don't even know exist. Man I have a feeling you'd lose all interest in women if you understood them and knew how they think haha.
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
Sounds like a Carlton Banks Knock-off without the money! Bummer dude.lastresort said:
Women are so good at the game now that there are shows that give away our secrets in an attempt to teach those who don't know.
"Women are meant to be loved, not understood. If you understand them, you won't be able to love them anymore."
"For a man, pretending to understand women is bad manners, but to really understand women is bad morals."