"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i dont understand what she wants?

lamobatsman

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my thread from last year about a girl i met on fb and then met up and she kissed a guy in front of me. why she back in contact and asking "hey how are you" and then saying that i blocked her on facebook.

Is she ****ing mental?? she knew i had feeligns for her. what does she want?

surely if i did this to her and kissed a girl in front of her and messaged her saying hey she would think im nuts!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She collects orbiters and wants you to put in an application.

She recently broke up with a boyfriend and now is searching for male attention.

She has not interest in you beyond validation.

She MIGHT want a one-off bang to make her feel good about herself, but if that's the case, you need to HIT IT NOW.

Otherwise, she's just fishing for guys to boost her self-esteem.

Either try to hit it once, or ignore and continue on with you life.

DO NOT get into friendly chit-chat with her. Either game her hard looking for a quick and easy lay, or just forget about her and don't write her back. NOTHING IN THE MIDDLE.
 

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^^This

You: "I blocked you on Facebook? I don't think so? Maybe you are doing something wrong. It's been a long time, come over on Friday for drinks and catching up"

Anything less than a yes, ignore for the rest of your life. She's just trying to play you.
 

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She wants an orbiter aka an emotional tampon. You dropped her ass because you knew she was in another castle. This will not go past the friendzone. Sorry, but that's the truth and judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 

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lamobatsman said:
...Is she ****ing mental?? she knew i had feeligns for her. what does she want?...
Nope, she is no 'mental' nor she knows what she want, mostly females don't know what they want. So quoute from there said: "You can know women or can have them". I think this is in your case problem, you are trying to understand what she wants instead to focus on getting her.

So go and 'attack'!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yep, agree with above posters.
Become instantly and overtly sexual with her. Don't be rude about it, just casually hit her up. If she rebuffs you, go ghost. Simple.
 

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Lamobatsman, if you continue NC with this chick, no need to revisit this thread.

However, for educational purposes, if you do decide to rapidly escalate with her and try to hit it, come back and tell us what happened. It could be a lesson on how to get an easy lay from an AW newly busted up with her BF, i.e., How to quickly get a lay from a AW looking for an orbiter.

If you just text/converse and/or go out friendly, you'll be friendzoning yourself.

But, if you act quickly to get her out for drinks, then maybe there's a bang waiting for you.

We could develop some knowledge and strategies for these situations.
 

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
However, for educational purposes, if you do decide to rapidly escalate with her and try to hit it, come back and tell us what happened. It could be a lesson on how to get an easy lay from an AW newly busted up with her BF, i.e., How to quickly get a lay from a AW looking for an orbiter.
I really hope OP does this. Would love to hear the results. Do it for us, man :)
 

Big Nuts

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Yup, rapidly escalate...ignore her the rest of your life if she balks...this is an easy one.
 
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