Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i dont understand what she wants?

lamobatsman

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my thread from last year about a girl i met on fb and then met up and she kissed a guy in front of me. why she back in contact and asking "hey how are you" and then saying that i blocked her on facebook.

Is she ****ing mental?? she knew i had feeligns for her. what does she want?

surely if i did this to her and kissed a girl in front of her and messaged her saying hey she would think im nuts!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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She collects orbiters and wants you to put in an application.

She recently broke up with a boyfriend and now is searching for male attention.

She has not interest in you beyond validation.

She MIGHT want a one-off bang to make her feel good about herself, but if that's the case, you need to HIT IT NOW.

Otherwise, she's just fishing for guys to boost her self-esteem.

Either try to hit it once, or ignore and continue on with you life.

DO NOT get into friendly chit-chat with her. Either game her hard looking for a quick and easy lay, or just forget about her and don't write her back. NOTHING IN THE MIDDLE.
 

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^^This

You: "I blocked you on Facebook? I don't think so? Maybe you are doing something wrong. It's been a long time, come over on Friday for drinks and catching up"

Anything less than a yes, ignore for the rest of your life. She's just trying to play you.
 

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She wants an orbiter aka an emotional tampon. You dropped her ass because you knew she was in another castle. This will not go past the friendzone. Sorry, but that's the truth and judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 

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lamobatsman said:
...Is she ****ing mental?? she knew i had feeligns for her. what does she want?...
Nope, she is no 'mental' nor she knows what she want, mostly females don't know what they want. So quoute from there said: "You can know women or can have them". I think this is in your case problem, you are trying to understand what she wants instead to focus on getting her.

So go and 'attack'!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Greasy Pig

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Yep, agree with above posters.
Become instantly and overtly sexual with her. Don't be rude about it, just casually hit her up. If she rebuffs you, go ghost. Simple.
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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Lamobatsman, if you continue NC with this chick, no need to revisit this thread.

However, for educational purposes, if you do decide to rapidly escalate with her and try to hit it, come back and tell us what happened. It could be a lesson on how to get an easy lay from an AW newly busted up with her BF, i.e., How to quickly get a lay from a AW looking for an orbiter.

If you just text/converse and/or go out friendly, you'll be friendzoning yourself.

But, if you act quickly to get her out for drinks, then maybe there's a bang waiting for you.

We could develop some knowledge and strategies for these situations.
 

TheCWord

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
However, for educational purposes, if you do decide to rapidly escalate with her and try to hit it, come back and tell us what happened. It could be a lesson on how to get an easy lay from an AW newly busted up with her BF, i.e., How to quickly get a lay from a AW looking for an orbiter.
I really hope OP does this. Would love to hear the results. Do it for us, man :)
 

Big Nuts

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Yup, rapidly escalate...ignore her the rest of your life if she balks...this is an easy one.
 
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