"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I don't understand this one.

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Guys, I'm not like some of the people here still getting over talking to girls and afraid of asking for the number. I've been very successful with girls this year/summer. Now let me explain that while I was at Hooters I had one of the girls working there give me a piece of paper with her number. One of my friends who works there said she thought I was really cute and wanted to hang out. I talked to her for a few and called her a few times. She never picked up so I never understood that. She even wanted me to go out with her that night to drink at her friends. But every time I called or left a message I never got a call back? WTF

Another one.. I was at some Volleyball Courts playing with a bunch of buddies. This really hot girl(solid 9) was checking me out while we were playing. So I went over and talked to them for a few. As her and her group we're leaving I was about to go ask for her number. But before I even got up her friend goes "Hey man.. Do you want this girls number?". I went over there and got it and she wanted me to call her sometime. I called her that night and she didn't pick up. A day later I texted and she said she wanted to hang out sometime and to call her. I tried calling her like two days later and she never picked up. She called me back but I didn't hear it so I tried again. Didn't pick up. I tried calling her tonight and she didn't pick up. It's still early in the night so maybe she will but this is confusing.

Should I just text her and let her know I want to hang out with her tonight? I'm not worried about sounding weird because I got a few others I can call/ already have plans with. But I would like to see this one go somewhere.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nevermind.. She called back. Leaving for vacation tomorrow morning and packing.. Lame.. Not going to be back till the 28th.. **** man that sucks lol.. So hot
 

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Shes playing games with your head if she calls back after more than 24 hours.
People who do that get to talk to my voice mail. :kick:
 
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Yeah kid, life goes on - give things time!
 

bearfan34201

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Yeah it's cool. Every things fine, We'll probably hang out when she gets back in town.. How many opportunities do you have with a Abercrombie Model? The way I look at it.. As many opportunities as I want.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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