"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i dont understand this chick

quicksilver1234

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i recently ran into a girl that y friends used to go to school with. the first time i met her, she seemed really cool n flirty... So i thought she was into me a lil. I also thought this because the whole time, she was facing only me out of the other 3 ppl on the table. so i told my friends about her and they told me that she is just like that. basically what they were tring to say was that she has a flity personality and that she does that to everyone. I dont know what the hell to do, cause i usually read body language preety good but this time its different. Also, whenever i alk 2 her online, shes very exited to talk to me, but then again, she is known to do that with everyone. and she is also the type of girl that if you ask her out and she doesnt like u, she wouldnt give a stright up answer. n if ou put your arms around her, she wouldnt say anythin, weather she likes you or not. I dont know what 2 do, ive made a preety good first impression, but i usually fuk up on the second ones. anyone got anyadvice lemme know.
Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Debonaire

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ask her to hang out with you. alone


if she wants to and then DOES IT, she likes you (at least enough to give you a chance) then its up to you player

if she doesn't, next.
 

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Sounds like she might be playing you. She probably has interest. Just go for it, you'll probably never see her again.
 

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I will see her, im going to be going to school with her and she will be in alot of my classes.
 
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