I Don't like to ask for advice... But...

[bearfan34201]

This hb8.5 leaves me texts and ****. Telling me to call her or whatever. We've talked on the phone and that was cool... I called her satruday night but she was babysitting but she left the offer that I could call her when I got home to "talk". I don't know if thats a sign of intrest or just a phone *****. I hate asking for advice now but this is sort of a touchy subject with this girl considering I work with her Mom and Sister at the gym and her dads there alot.

 

[realsmoothie]

I'll tell you what a lot of other people here will tell you... talking on the phone is no good. You need to see her in person.

That's all I have to say... your screenname caught my attention, because I'm assuming you're a CHICAGO Bears fan and your Bears are goin' DOWN this weekend when my HAWKS come to town!!!! :woo:

 

[Aaron B]

ABE: Always Be Escalating

Right now she will talk on the phone with you. Your goal is to escalate from there. Plan a date, then invite her on it.

Soon it will be time to escalate again, and you will kiss her. Do you see where I am going with this?

As the man, it is your job to plan a course of action, then set the plan in motion. You can never sit back and rest on your laurels. You have to always be escalating.

If she won't go on a date with you, then next her because of low interest. Do not accept her excuses. Interested women WILL make time for you.

Remember: you have to control the frame. The most effective way I have found is to make a plan independent of her input, then execute the plan. If at any point she isn't willing to go along with the plan, her interest is low.

 

[KarmaSutra]

ABE: Always Be Escalating

I will add this:

Blake: A.I.D.A. Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

A -Attention. Do I have your attention?
I - Interest. Are you interested? I know you are 'cuz it's fvck or walk; you
close or you hit the bricks.
D - Decision. Have you made your decision for Christ!
and Action, you got the prospects coming in, you think they come in to get outta the rain? A chick don't walk in the club unless she wants a guy. She's standing out there waiting to give you the pvssy. Are you gonna take it? Are you man enough to take it?

Gotta love Mamet