“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bearfan34201

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This hb8.5 leaves me texts and ****. Telling me to call her or whatever. We've talked on the phone and that was cool... I called her satruday night but she was babysitting but she left the offer that I could call her when I got home to "talk". I don't know if thats a sign of intrest or just a phone *****. I hate asking for advice now but this is sort of a touchy subject with this girl considering I work with her Mom and Sister at the gym and her dads there alot.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

realsmoothie

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I'll tell you what a lot of other people here will tell you... talking on the phone is no good. You need to see her in person.

That's all I have to say... your screenname caught my attention, because I'm assuming you're a CHICAGO Bears fan and your Bears are goin' DOWN this weekend when my HAWKS come to town!!!! :woo:
 

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ABE: Always Be Escalating

Right now she will talk on the phone with you. Your goal is to escalate from there. Plan a date, then invite her on it.

Soon it will be time to escalate again, and you will kiss her. Do you see where I am going with this?

As the man, it is your job to plan a course of action, then set the plan in motion. You can never sit back and rest on your laurels. You have to always be escalating.

If she won't go on a date with you, then next her because of low interest. Do not accept her excuses. Interested women WILL make time for you.

Remember: you have to control the frame. The most effective way I have found is to make a plan independent of her input, then execute the plan. If at any point she isn't willing to go along with the plan, her interest is low.
 

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Aaron B said:
ABE: Always Be Escalating
I will add this:

Blake: A.I.D.A. Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

A -Attention. Do I have your attention?
I - Interest. Are you interested? I know you are 'cuz it's fvck or walk; you
close or you hit the bricks.
D - Decision. Have you made your decision for Christ!
and Action, you got the prospects coming in, you think they come in to get outta the rain? A chick don't walk in the club unless she wants a guy. She's standing out there waiting to give you the pvssy. Are you gonna take it? Are you man enough to take it?

Gotta love Mamet :D
 
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