"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This hb8.5 leaves me texts and ****. Telling me to call her or whatever. We've talked on the phone and that was cool... I called her satruday night but she was babysitting but she left the offer that I could call her when I got home to "talk". I don't know if thats a sign of intrest or just a phone *****. I hate asking for advice now but this is sort of a touchy subject with this girl considering I work with her Mom and Sister at the gym and her dads there alot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll tell you what a lot of other people here will tell you... talking on the phone is no good. You need to see her in person.

That's all I have to say... your screenname caught my attention, because I'm assuming you're a CHICAGO Bears fan and your Bears are goin' DOWN this weekend when my HAWKS come to town!!!! :woo:
 
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ABE: Always Be Escalating

Right now she will talk on the phone with you. Your goal is to escalate from there. Plan a date, then invite her on it.

Soon it will be time to escalate again, and you will kiss her. Do you see where I am going with this?

As the man, it is your job to plan a course of action, then set the plan in motion. You can never sit back and rest on your laurels. You have to always be escalating.

If she won't go on a date with you, then next her because of low interest. Do not accept her excuses. Interested women WILL make time for you.

Remember: you have to control the frame. The most effective way I have found is to make a plan independent of her input, then execute the plan. If at any point she isn't willing to go along with the plan, her interest is low.
 
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Aaron B said:
ABE: Always Be Escalating
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I will add this:

Blake: A.I.D.A. Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

A -Attention. Do I have your attention?
I - Interest. Are you interested? I know you are 'cuz it's fvck or walk; you
close or you hit the bricks.
D - Decision. Have you made your decision for Christ!
and Action, you got the prospects coming in, you think they come in to get outta the rain? A chick don't walk in the club unless she wants a guy. She's standing out there waiting to give you the pvssy. Are you gonna take it? Are you man enough to take it?

Gotta love Mamet :D
 
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