“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't like these "there's this girl..." threads, but

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Just wanna share something... I been talking to this chick for a little bit cuz she was in my class, got her screen name, number etc... I said lets grab lunch, so we did, even though one of her girlfriends was with her. meh, it was pretty fun, watever. So I'm just chillin with one of my boys and decided to text her.

Hey
-hi
What u doing
-blabla
lets hang out on tuesday when we get back

...does not respond for an hour!
so an hour later, since she did not reply i send the following text: "aight sweety, have a good life then :)"

2 seconds later shes like "lol sorry i was in the shower, yah sure"

I did not even say anything. I guess she does wanna hang out, but just got on my nerves
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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just a little more info about me:
The reason I dont like this type of threads is because if you're writing an online post about a specific bytch, you're already thinking too much about her... if theres any doubt just move on to other girls...

But i had this (i hate this word) oneitis since 1.5 years ago, and I got hurt alot mainly because i didn't know any ****en better. Ever since then ive had a BAD attitude towards women in general because i was afraid of getting hurt again. Just recently i began to snap out of it... with the help of you all.
Respek.
 
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DJVladdy said:
Hey
-hi
What u doing
-blabla
lets hang out on tuesday when we get back

...does not respond for an hour!
so an hour later, since she did not reply i send the following text: "aight sweety, have a good life then :)"

2 seconds later shes like "lol sorry i was in the shower, yah sure"
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Oh man, please take your ego down from the throne you put it on and give her a break for not responding immediately. Talk about wanting instant gratification. That's want happens when you have tv, computers, cell phones, etc, etc.
 
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DJVladdy said:
Just wanna share something... I been talking to this chick for a little bit cuz she was in my class, got her screen name, number etc... I said lets grab lunch, so we did, even though one of her girlfriends was with her. meh, it was pretty fun, watever. So I'm just chillin with one of my boys and decided to text her.

Hey
-hi
What u doing
-blabla
lets hang out on tuesday when we get back

...does not respond for an hour!
so an hour later, since she did not reply i send the following text: "aight sweety, have a good life then :)"

2 seconds later shes like "lol sorry i was in the shower, yah sure"

I did not even say anything. I guess she does wanna hang out, but just got on my nerves
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You fu[c]ked up.
 
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To elaborate, she was semi-interested (she didn't reply right away), and you blew it because you were impatient.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eh man maybe i did f up... its a shame cuz shes a hottie and a nice girl too. I've actually been a prick to her all this time... wow thanks to all the authors of "be alpha male" books and articles. LOL
 
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On the other hand what was she thinkin bringing her ugly friend with her... Some time in the middle of our "coffee", I think we walked to a different part of the cafe... i pulled her aside and was like whats she doing here, is it cuz your trying to hook me up u wanna explain?? She just laughed it off, thought it was funny, shes like noo im just kidding.
 
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If anyone has suggestions or comments, ur welcome to say it
 
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ok last bump lol, suggestions anyone
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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an hour is too short a time. She could have been really taking a shower she might be honest. Give it 24 hours. No girl forgets to check her messages for a day so if she doesn't text you within 24 hours you are out of luck.
 
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Ok ive had this problem a lot. And there's not much you can do really. Besides from waiting a day for her to text back like what "Joe The Homophobe" said. The reality is she probably did forget or is busy. Well at least that is what you MUST think.

What i usually do is say something like this in a similar situation: "Hey brat, hurry up and reply! Jeez, your not playing hard to get already...sick lol"

But you have to change that comment so it fits something like you could say and it would make sense in the situation . But you get the idea....
That comment is the best i can think of. But it can be still taken as needy in your situation. Depends if she likes you or not?? So just a warning...
 
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