SamoJednom
Don Juan
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So follow Alex's routine in this link: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110033 ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oxide said:LoL ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What the hell is that?
Go to Alex's thread straight away dude.
-I am on week 13 and am still adding weight to each exercise every workout. The key is to start light with weight you can handle easily and work on your form. It may seem too easy at first, but it will get harder quickly and this will enable you to continue adding small increments of weight each workout.SamoJednom said:qkmantis,
-Since you already used Mark Rippetoe's program, can you tell me how long you sticked with it before changing your routine or are you still on it?
-What kind of gains did you have? ex. Starting weight and after few months on program your new weight.
-Was your routine similar to what I posted?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
-I did not follow his meal plan. Most of what I have learned about diet has come from this board (mainly WBA) and from searching around the internet.SamoJednom said:qkmantis,
-Did you follow his meal plan exactly?? If so how does your meal plan look like now, like amount of times you eat a day + the food your eating.
-Do you have a workout journal posted somewhere?!