"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know where to start

tdotseoul

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All the women that I work with at the office are not really my type.
I have no clue where I'm suppose to meet women.

I have a full time job and an internship position.
Therefore, I work from 8 AM to 11 PM, so I have no time for gym or any other extracurricular activities.

I have only one Sunday off.
Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher

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What country are you in? How do you define your type, and what makes them not your type?
 

Uncharted

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What do your friends do on the weekends? Do some of them have girlfriends? Do they have parties? Meet people through your social network. Call your friends and tell them you're going to a bar this weekend. Have a good time.
 

tdotseoul

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Uncharted said:
What do your friends do on the weekends? Do some of them have girlfriends? Do they have parties? Meet people through your social network. Call your friends and tell them you're going to a bar this weekend. Have a good time.
Like I said, if it was weekend then yes that's no problem but I only have Sunday afternoon/evening off, which people are in their recovery mode from their Friday and Saturday.

A luxury I don't have unfortunately.
 
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