"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't know where to start

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All the women that I work with at the office are not really my type.
I have no clue where I'm suppose to meet women.

I have a full time job and an internship position.
Therefore, I work from 8 AM to 11 PM, so I have no time for gym or any other extracurricular activities.

I have only one Sunday off.
Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What country are you in? How do you define your type, and what makes them not your type?
 
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What do your friends do on the weekends? Do some of them have girlfriends? Do they have parties? Meet people through your social network. Call your friends and tell them you're going to a bar this weekend. Have a good time.
 
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Uncharted said:
What do your friends do on the weekends? Do some of them have girlfriends? Do they have parties? Meet people through your social network. Call your friends and tell them you're going to a bar this weekend. Have a good time.
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Like I said, if it was weekend then yes that's no problem but I only have Sunday afternoon/evening off, which people are in their recovery mode from their Friday and Saturday.

A luxury I don't have unfortunately.
 
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