I dont know what to do, were to turn

[kegger]

Ok, I know you guys here this all the time, but I must explain my circumstance because you usually make me feel better about myself, pick myself up, and start over again. Well, her is this thing. I really got this thing for this chick, lives about 2 hours away. No problem, she makes lots of visits down. Well, originally she was supposed to be going out with this dude from Wisconsin. Last I spoke to her, she still way. Well, guess she made a surprise visit this weekend and I saw her holding hands with this dude, think an ex she always gets together with when she comes down. Well, I think it was her, can't be sure. I was really busy because it was a festival and I have to run a booth. And they were like 15 feet away when she saw me and yelled hi. I only had time to say hi and they were gone around the bend. Now what do I do. We seem to be pretty good friends and talk alot on Yahoo. Should I just like explain to her that I like her and ask her out? Be more sneaky then that about it and say something fancy and if so, like what? Or is there a better way? Please help before I go insane and end up in some mental home.

Thanks, Kegger

 

[Michael Chief]

you have oneitis. get rid of it. bang some other chicks. dont forget to use protection!

 

[kegger]

Dude, that didnt help me much

 

[Skilla_Staz]

That was actually good advice. You're thinking too much about her. You're placing her on a pedestal. YOU TALK TO HER ALL THE TIME ON YAHOO! Get out, do something else, keep yourself busy. Hang out with her every now and then. Diversify yourself. Avoid oneitis. Push/Pull. DO SOMETHING.

 

[matygee]

my friend my friend. she seems like a great chick and all but a hard but very powerful rule with women that you msut learn is ALWAYS BE WILLING to leave. and judging by the circumstances (shes holding HIS hand and not YOURS) it seems shes already made her pick and your sitting there sobbing. get over her man...emotions are for girls, find some next chicks man fo real.

 

[Docs]

my friend my friend. she seems like a great chick and all but a hard but very powerful rule with women that you msut learn is ALWAYS BE WILLING to leave. and judging by the circumstances (shes holding HIS hand and not YOURS) it seems shes already made her pick and your sitting there sobbing. get over her man...emotions are for girls, find some next chicks man fo real.

Bang. Spot on.

 

[The Columbus Myth]

screw it maybe later in life buddy!

 

[kegger]

Thanks, you helped some. It just bugs me when I can't figure out the answers to some things, thats why I came to you guys. Because generally I am the one that everyone comes to when they need help with things, and when I can't figure something out it bugs me to no end. I am even good at giving friends advice with there love life. I try to look at myself as a third person, if this makes sense, and answer my own questions as if I were answering someone elses. Does that make sense and do you guys ever try that?

 

[Docs]

Totally, in the past.