TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I need to finish my school for a bachelor degree. It's probably going to take me a year to finish everything at school.
Problem.
I live with my mom, and my moms on welfare. She's very negative everyday and that gives me major mood issues. She screams and yells and gets on my nerves everyday, I made a lot of mistakes with money too and had the chance to finish my school years ago but I didn't take them. Yet I have a last chance now but im debating on taking radical decisions tommorow like quitting from school and focussing on my job.
So to speak, I can't really leave her by herself after all the support she gave me, though I f8cked up many chances to finish my school.
I work as a succesfull salesman, my boss is super happy with me. I told him about my financial issues since I got to go to school twice a week and work only 3 days a week and our rent is pretty high. He proposed to borrow me 600 euros a month on top of my salary and I agreed. We are in the second month of that agreement now and sh1t is still unduable for me. I need to pay 2 friends a total sum of 1300 euros. And I got a 900 euros debt at companies (insurance, school college money etc) and the tax authorities lowered our support for the house from 300euros to a 100.
Next do that my car broke this weekend and its at the garage, I dont have enough cash to even pay the garage dealer ( I know him, going to propose to pay at the end of the month).
So I got kind of financial issues, this with the negative spiral my mom is in (no husband for over a year) and the high bills I got I can't provide.
Im thinking now about quitting with school and getting quitting the borrowing contract with my boss and ask him for a full time contract. But I will have a 40.000 euro debt at college for 7 years without finishing my diplome. I only have a P degree what allows me to go to a university to do a master.
I need to work full time to fix my debts now.
I got a few options, please guys help me true it.
A. Do whatever to finish my college year, leave house (and leave my mom to starve probably, maybe the town government can support her, they probably will) I really don't want to do this.
B. Stay at home, try to make it work with mom and finish my college. Includes, 1 year of living with almost nothing, working in old clothes and go on. I need to call every debt owner and try to propose a solution. But I will do anything to finish college, no big debt and a bachelor degree in business communication.
C. Work full-time and trust my boss on his business plans with me. He is extremeley happy with me and offered to start a business together after a year or 2. Until know he kept his word with everything, but it's words. It's not secure and they could still throw me out which leaves me without a diplome.
I really hate to tell people about my problems but I got no1 to go to except for my best friend who told me to live on water and bread and leave the house and finish school with almost no money the upcoming year.
The easiest option is C because I could go to the gym, get nice clothes and go on with my DJ life and have dates, live life and work on my goal to start a business with my boss.
If I go for the other options I will be forced to stay at the house and focus on study and work for a year which my mindset is not ready for.
I was planning on option C and telling my boss tommorow to stop the borrowing and give me fulltime contract, working hard and trying to start a business with him in another city. I can only trust him on his words on this matter but I sell a lot, surpass my targets and have the best client reviews of the company.
Problem.
I live with my mom, and my moms on welfare. She's very negative everyday and that gives me major mood issues. She screams and yells and gets on my nerves everyday, I made a lot of mistakes with money too and had the chance to finish my school years ago but I didn't take them. Yet I have a last chance now but im debating on taking radical decisions tommorow like quitting from school and focussing on my job.
So to speak, I can't really leave her by herself after all the support she gave me, though I f8cked up many chances to finish my school.
I work as a succesfull salesman, my boss is super happy with me. I told him about my financial issues since I got to go to school twice a week and work only 3 days a week and our rent is pretty high. He proposed to borrow me 600 euros a month on top of my salary and I agreed. We are in the second month of that agreement now and sh1t is still unduable for me. I need to pay 2 friends a total sum of 1300 euros. And I got a 900 euros debt at companies (insurance, school college money etc) and the tax authorities lowered our support for the house from 300euros to a 100.
Next do that my car broke this weekend and its at the garage, I dont have enough cash to even pay the garage dealer ( I know him, going to propose to pay at the end of the month).
So I got kind of financial issues, this with the negative spiral my mom is in (no husband for over a year) and the high bills I got I can't provide.
Im thinking now about quitting with school and getting quitting the borrowing contract with my boss and ask him for a full time contract. But I will have a 40.000 euro debt at college for 7 years without finishing my diplome. I only have a P degree what allows me to go to a university to do a master.
I need to work full time to fix my debts now.
I got a few options, please guys help me true it.
A. Do whatever to finish my college year, leave house (and leave my mom to starve probably, maybe the town government can support her, they probably will) I really don't want to do this.
B. Stay at home, try to make it work with mom and finish my college. Includes, 1 year of living with almost nothing, working in old clothes and go on. I need to call every debt owner and try to propose a solution. But I will do anything to finish college, no big debt and a bachelor degree in business communication.
C. Work full-time and trust my boss on his business plans with me. He is extremeley happy with me and offered to start a business together after a year or 2. Until know he kept his word with everything, but it's words. It's not secure and they could still throw me out which leaves me without a diplome.
I really hate to tell people about my problems but I got no1 to go to except for my best friend who told me to live on water and bread and leave the house and finish school with almost no money the upcoming year.
The easiest option is C because I could go to the gym, get nice clothes and go on with my DJ life and have dates, live life and work on my goal to start a business with my boss.
If I go for the other options I will be forced to stay at the house and focus on study and work for a year which my mindset is not ready for.
I was planning on option C and telling my boss tommorow to stop the borrowing and give me fulltime contract, working hard and trying to start a business with him in another city. I can only trust him on his words on this matter but I sell a lot, surpass my targets and have the best client reviews of the company.
