"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i dont know what love is...

sav

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but i sure know when it has passed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm in the midst of figuring that out too, actually redefining it to fit into who I am today. Damn difficult when you're dealing with a woman who's already professed her feeling toward you.
 

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I know what love is. It's a sham, a marketing gimmick, one of the rarer destructive impulses of humans that was brought to light by women (while men are responsible for nuclear weaponry, wealth disparity, and slavery.)

As a gimmick love sells books, movies, flowers, chocolate, and a host of other products. Like violence it is a marketable commodity, and hence it has been glorified beyond it's bounds, made out to be something of considerably more substance than it offers as a descriptive word by it's own nature alone.

Love is a hormonal state that benefits the woman more than the man. Contrary to common belief, men are more capable of remaining faithful to their significant others than women are. Women benefit from this by receiving competing sperm and thus the most fit genes while also benefiting from a solid resource extraction from a cuckolded male.

If your smart, you will not fall for the con of love. It is not in your best interest as a man.

This is a sorry state of affairs, this whole power struggle, the battle of the sexes. It saddens me that I can not see a solution to the dilemma that faces man and woman, the one that necessitates one always striving for power over the other. I would love to see a day where men and women were equals, but alas, it seems so far away. Until then, I'd rather be the one the woman is cheating with than the one she is cheating on.
 

xdreamz

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you know when the birds and the bees, they come together and do the thing, together, i dunno how to explain this......somebody will tell you later
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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