"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i dont know what love is...

sav

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but i sure know when it has passed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm in the midst of figuring that out too, actually redefining it to fit into who I am today. Damn difficult when you're dealing with a woman who's already professed her feeling toward you.
 

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I know what love is. It's a sham, a marketing gimmick, one of the rarer destructive impulses of humans that was brought to light by women (while men are responsible for nuclear weaponry, wealth disparity, and slavery.)

As a gimmick love sells books, movies, flowers, chocolate, and a host of other products. Like violence it is a marketable commodity, and hence it has been glorified beyond it's bounds, made out to be something of considerably more substance than it offers as a descriptive word by it's own nature alone.

Love is a hormonal state that benefits the woman more than the man. Contrary to common belief, men are more capable of remaining faithful to their significant others than women are. Women benefit from this by receiving competing sperm and thus the most fit genes while also benefiting from a solid resource extraction from a cuckolded male.

If your smart, you will not fall for the con of love. It is not in your best interest as a man.

This is a sorry state of affairs, this whole power struggle, the battle of the sexes. It saddens me that I can not see a solution to the dilemma that faces man and woman, the one that necessitates one always striving for power over the other. I would love to see a day where men and women were equals, but alas, it seems so far away. Until then, I'd rather be the one the woman is cheating with than the one she is cheating on.
 

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you know when the birds and the bees, they come together and do the thing, together, i dunno how to explain this......somebody will tell you later
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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