"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i don't know much about ****y funny

tarotale

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ya sure, everyone is excited about ****y funny, and it obviously does get a lot of attraction... but for my problem, ****y funny just does not come out that easy. when i meet a girl, i mean, it does not come out that easy. i don know if it is just me or what, but maybe i lack ****y funny knowledge? i want to know, help me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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First: read articles
Second: practice fast-wittiness
Third: Youtube: Louis CK and other hilarious comedians and learn their quick wittiness.
 

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C & F does vedry little to build rapport and takes years to master.

The problem lies with the funny portion for most guys.
 
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If ****y and funny isn't working for you, you can always try to jokingly show your higher status. Think of it as a funny (but not harsh) way of knocking her down a peg. It works, but it takes practice...and not all girls respond to the same stuff. So be prepared to do some spin control.
 

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I didn't even realize I was doing the whole ****y-funny thing until I read about it and thought "that's what I do anyway". ._.

Basically just act the way you act around your mates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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