"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i don't know much about ****y funny

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ya sure, everyone is excited about ****y funny, and it obviously does get a lot of attraction... but for my problem, ****y funny just does not come out that easy. when i meet a girl, i mean, it does not come out that easy. i don know if it is just me or what, but maybe i lack ****y funny knowledge? i want to know, help me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First: read articles
Second: practice fast-wittiness
Third: Youtube: Louis CK and other hilarious comedians and learn their quick wittiness.
 
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C & F does vedry little to build rapport and takes years to master.

The problem lies with the funny portion for most guys.
 
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If ****y and funny isn't working for you, you can always try to jokingly show your higher status. Think of it as a funny (but not harsh) way of knocking her down a peg. It works, but it takes practice...and not all girls respond to the same stuff. So be prepared to do some spin control.
 
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I didn't even realize I was doing the whole ****y-funny thing until I read about it and thought "that's what I do anyway". ._.

Basically just act the way you act around your mates.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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