"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I don't know if it would work out....."

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Ok, well I am talking to this girl and she straight out tells me that she likes me and wants to know if I was interested in her and I said I was. So then she goes on to say that she doesn't know if it would work out because she feels that I think she wouldn't be a good girlfriend. What do I say to that? HELP!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Great One said:
Ok, well I am talking to this girl and she straight out tells me that she likes me and wants to know if I was interested in her and I said I was. So then she goes on to say that she doesn't know if it would work out because she feels that I think she wouldn't be a good girlfriend. What do I say to that? HELP!!!
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When she said that, I would have smiled, shrugged and said, "Your loss." and walked away. As I was walking away I would have called over my shoulder, "Let me know if you ever change your mind." or something to that affect and just left her standing there, looking like a fool.
 
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thatd be good, but honestly she used a line you shouldve used

her: are you interested in me?
you: a lil, but it would never work out. my mom doesnt like me dating loose women.
 
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Errrrr why would she said that? To make her look bad?? NOOO!!! She is testing u!!!
 
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haha u shouldnt of told her that u like her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha u shouldnt of told her that u like her
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That being said, what should he have done?
 
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