"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I don't know if it would work out....."

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Ok, well I am talking to this girl and she straight out tells me that she likes me and wants to know if I was interested in her and I said I was. So then she goes on to say that she doesn't know if it would work out because she feels that I think she wouldn't be a good girlfriend. What do I say to that? HELP!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_rogers

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The Great One said:
Ok, well I am talking to this girl and she straight out tells me that she likes me and wants to know if I was interested in her and I said I was. So then she goes on to say that she doesn't know if it would work out because she feels that I think she wouldn't be a good girlfriend. What do I say to that? HELP!!!
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When she said that, I would have smiled, shrugged and said, "Your loss." and walked away. As I was walking away I would have called over my shoulder, "Let me know if you ever change your mind." or something to that affect and just left her standing there, looking like a fool.
 
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dannowillbookem

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thatd be good, but honestly she used a line you shouldve used

her: are you interested in me?
you: a lil, but it would never work out. my mom doesnt like me dating loose women.
 
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Errrrr why would she said that? To make her look bad?? NOOO!!! She is testing u!!!
 
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Phat

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haha u shouldnt of told her that u like her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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haha u shouldnt of told her that u like her
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That being said, what should he have done?
 
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