sodbuster
Master Don Juan
when the pendulum swings back, we need to make sure it get's a little extra push.....
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You know what is funny? That is what all of this is leading up to in the end. That swing back will come at a time when the normal social laws will be fractured and weakened and all the rules and codes of conduct we had as men regarding women will go out the window and they will see just how much damage they have done collectively to men as a whole. It will be a sad day but a day we will need to see.when the pendulum swings back, we need to make sure it get's a little extra push.....
This guy gets it.use women for sex/companionship benefits and never enter into a legal relationship with them unless you just really want children and are willing to wrestle with the dumb chick in the legal system over seeing your children.
The MOMENT the bytch starts acting an a.ss you can easily discard her for another bytch. You can't do that if you have legal ties to them, they will destroy your life
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You have to look beyond women at the larger picture. They aren't doing anything to us, WE are.You know what is funny? That is what all of this is leading up to in the end. That swing back will come at a time when the normal social laws will be fractured and weakened and all the rules and codes of conduct we had as men regarding women will go out the window and they will see just how much damage they have done collectively to men as a whole. It will be a sad day but a day we will need to see.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.