I don't give a fvck about getting laid

[The Accountant]

I'm still a virgin, have had multiple chances to escalate and have sex, have had girls hint at it, but I simply do not give a **** so I never do. And it makes me not sexual enough around women. I'm still in HS, and just don't want to be sleeping around. I would definitely bang a girlfriend, but so far I'm just pulling the hot girls. All the gf material I'm around is taken. And to be honest, I'm not sure what I want. But it seems like I friendzone myself by not being sexual enough. I don't have low t, I'll rub one out a few times a week. I'll pop one when the right girls are touching me, but I never let it go past that. Every single one of my friends is jealous as hell about the girls that have kissed me and etc, but call me a retard for not going for it. The only positive about this is that I'm not phased by looks one bit and pretty much just laugh at the girls who try to bat their eyes at me.

Will this haunt me if I don't become more sexual? How do I even start wanting sex if that's what's keeping me friendzoned?

 

[marmel75]

Go get your T levels checked. As sad as it is to say this is becoming more and more common.

The epidemic nobody wants to talk about...low testosterone.

 

[wifehunter]

I'm still a virgin, have had multiple chances to escalate and have sex, have had girls hint at it, but I simply do not give a **** so I never do. And it makes me not sexual enough around women. I'm still in HS, and just don't want to be sleeping around. I would definitely bang a girlfriend, but so far I'm just pulling the hot girls. All the gf material I'm around is taken. And to be honest, I'm not sure what I want. But it seems like I friendzone myself by not being sexual enough. I don't have low t, I'll rub one out a few times a week. I'll pop one when the right girls are touching me, but I never let it go past that. Every single one of my friends is jealous as hell about the girls that have kissed me and etc, but call me a retard for not going for it. The only positive about this is that I'm not phased by looks one bit and pretty much just laugh at the girls who try to bat their eyes at me.

Will this haunt me if I don't become more sexual? How do I even start wanting sex if that's what's keeping me friendzoned?

Enjoy it while you can. Girls dig a guy who doesn't have a penis for a brain. No need to get involved with someone that's not what you want. Leave things open, until your time. Don't let anyone pressure you.

 

[sosousage]

Go get your T levels checked. As sad as it is to say this is becoming more and more common.

The epidemic nobody wants to talk about...low testosterone.

i think at certain point some people give up all hope and their testosterone dies due to no results

 

[Spaz]

Go get your T levels checked. As sad as it is to say this is becoming more and more common.

The epidemic nobody wants to talk about...low testosterone.

I 2nd this.

 

[Murk]

3rd that.

Also - you just get comfortable and secure in your situation, it's human nature. It's why people stay in sh!t relationships and sh!t jobs, nobody likes change. You get comfortable loading up pornhub and busting all kinds of nuts on your belly in the comfort of your bedroom, pissing in bottles, living in squalor. Step out of your comfort zone, nobody will do it for you.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Will this haunt me if I don't become more sexual? How do I even start wanting sex if that's what's keeping me friendzoned?

Same here mate, but I'm not sure it's low testosterone levels. I was the same in HS, just disinterested in sex (though I never had that level of female attention at the time, hahaha!)

I still have the same kind of feeling today, for me I find it's actually a subtle lack of sexual confidence I think. The fact that it's unknown territory for me puts me off.

Also do you watch porn? I've found since I put the brakes on that, I'm getting a more natural desire to date and flirt with girls again. I think reining that stuff in is important in terms of getting your daily mojo back.

 

[Murk]

Trust me ditch the porn, that natural desire, that manliness, is what you need to store and use to propel you into situations with women. I always go nofap/porn in a dry spell. You get a boost of confidence and raw desire, this is what you need. Women can smell it. I'm sure it's linked to testosterone, never researched it though.