"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stumpy_mcgee

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Ok, here's my question. In high school, what's it better to come off as? The funny crazy party guy, or the quiet badboy?
I know quite a few quiet badboy types who can score with any girl they want, and me being the funny crazy party guy, can get girls, but not like those other guys. I know it has more to do with actual game and looks and all of that, I'm just wondering which of the two do you guys think is more attractive to girls?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Somewhere in between. It hurts to be quiet all the time, but you shouldn't be a clown. Show that you can have fun, but don't lose the tough attitude.
 

UltimateScoundrel

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don't pretend to be something you're not

If you're not a badboy, don't try to be one, people see through that fake **** in a second.

Do what feels natural
 

Mr. Debonaire

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im a funny crazy party guy and I get laid all the time :cool:

just go with the flow, do your own thing and be happy
 
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