"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't get it?

stumpy_mcgee

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Ok, here's my question. In high school, what's it better to come off as? The funny crazy party guy, or the quiet badboy?
I know quite a few quiet badboy types who can score with any girl they want, and me being the funny crazy party guy, can get girls, but not like those other guys. I know it has more to do with actual game and looks and all of that, I'm just wondering which of the two do you guys think is more attractive to girls?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Somewhere in between. It hurts to be quiet all the time, but you shouldn't be a clown. Show that you can have fun, but don't lose the tough attitude.
 

UltimateScoundrel

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don't pretend to be something you're not

If you're not a badboy, don't try to be one, people see through that fake **** in a second.

Do what feels natural
 

Mr. Debonaire

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im a funny crazy party guy and I get laid all the time :cool:

just go with the flow, do your own thing and be happy
 
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