"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I don't get it?

stumpy_mcgee

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Ok, here's my question. In high school, what's it better to come off as? The funny crazy party guy, or the quiet badboy?
I know quite a few quiet badboy types who can score with any girl they want, and me being the funny crazy party guy, can get girls, but not like those other guys. I know it has more to do with actual game and looks and all of that, I'm just wondering which of the two do you guys think is more attractive to girls?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Somewhere in between. It hurts to be quiet all the time, but you shouldn't be a clown. Show that you can have fun, but don't lose the tough attitude.
 

UltimateScoundrel

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don't pretend to be something you're not

If you're not a badboy, don't try to be one, people see through that fake **** in a second.

Do what feels natural
 

Mr. Debonaire

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im a funny crazy party guy and I get laid all the time :cool:

just go with the flow, do your own thing and be happy
 
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