"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i don't get it

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Crazy Asian

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i've only posted a few posts, but i've been reading on this forum forever. i've read almost the entire HS bible and i still don't really understand. Whenever i start a convo with a girl, they always show absolutly no interest. i do it with a smile, eye contact, and confidence etc... but they just never seem to pay attention to me for more than a second. how do u guys do it? do i have to build up a good rep before girls will even take a second look at me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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it's not about talking to the girl

you have to be genuinely confident... no faking it (i have a feeling that your confidence isn't REAL, am i right?).

it's about building the attraction.

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talk slow, talk loud... talk with a deeper voice than normal (don't make it sound fake-ish like barry white-ish.)

in other words, be manly as hell... i'm being very general because there's so many ways to be masculine.

think as if theyre shy, silly young girls 4 years younger than you that look up to you and that they try flirting with you.

(visualize these... doesn't it make it look a lot easier?)
 
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You have to play with her verbally before you can play with her physically. Do things like busting on her a little, doing the whole thing where you tell an unbelievable story or just something and they go "Really!?!" and you take it back by saying "No". And just general joking around, be serious about 10% of the time and when she asks you something never give a straight answer this keeps them talking and asking you questions plus it makes you look smooth and mysterious, this all goes under the catagory of banter. Banter is amazing because its soo mush fun to do and if you meet a girl who can hold her own in verbal banter you will never have those akward silences, did I mention its fun too. In short have fun with the way you talk to her and she'll be more interested in you if you can keep a running conversation.
 
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Heres another point, forget about talking to women for a while, go with some men. Hang out with some guys who you would consider to be cool and are DJs themselves and just see how they act, tell stories, and flirt. Analyse them and see why it works, them apply it to your own game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls need a hook. They need a reason to talk to you. Being really attractive can do it, or a really funny opener, but make it relevant so it's not totally canned. Being on a sports team or knowing her from class could help. Basically, they won't talk to you just because you're talking to them. You have to make them want to talk to you, not just try not to give them any reasons not to.
 
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