"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I dont get how such nerds keep girls around

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Something I've really come to notice with guys I know who are dorks is they never get tons of girls but they eventually meet one girl who actually gives them a chance and the girl always has to initiate everything but these losers actually keep these girls around for 2+ years at a time. They just go shopping and buy the girl tons of stuff and literally spend EVERY minute of there life with the girl when they are not working and they give up on all there friends and hobbies except for working at a minimum wage job they hate and the girl.

How do these women not run for the hills is what blows me away. These guys are out of shape and eather skinny dweebs or fat aswell and they make the girl the total focal point of there lives. Then these guys have the nerve to tell me I'm a loser because I am single and I choose to be single then say how I am the one who is scared to talk to a girl yet they see me landing girls left and right that I approach.

So how the hell is it these dweebs even keep these girls around for years on end?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't get how such nerds keep girls around

Translation: Why can't I get girls to stick around, instead I'm masterbating at home? Why am I bytching about other people, whos (judging by my diatribe) happiness really affects me, and makes me question the validity of my view of my superiority?

Ever think

Maybe they know how to really fawk her?

Maybe they have a big ass shlong?

Maybe they remind her of her father?

Maybe they touch and fufill some internal need?

Why are you jealous? You are or you wouldn't have wasted your time posting a thread.

Here's the real questions you should be asking....

Could it be that when the girls I pull left and right get to know me they don't like me?

Could it be my body weight (or my face) doesn't make me superior to other people?

Could it be, my envy of my lessers (what i term nerds) stems from my inability to hold down a real relationship?

Maybe there isn't much to like about you. If your post is any indication of what your like in life, then I know there isn't.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok here it is and you have to believe this no matter how weird it may sound. IT is girls @ life.

She is focusing on her life. The nerd is a walking dildo. She saw somthing in her life or is being pressured by a familey member to solve. Like getting a career started. Going to school. Catching up on bills. She used to be a slut, or drugy, ect ect.

So what she does is pick a guy that is a safe bet and will be easy to walk away from.. Like smokers who go to Chewing when they quit because Chewing is nasty and easy to quit. She is hibernating with this guy and cutting all ties from the dating scene so she can focus on herself. Once she feels caught up she will end the relationship somhow. They are good at that she will most likelly make it out to be his fault. ect ect.

That is why it always seems to be a 2 year stint or 1.5 - 2.5 year stint.

True Story.
 
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nice theory

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That theory is.....how shall I say this.....crap.

Maybe some girls do this (and even then your not factoring in attraction).

Your post only highlights a problem alot of guys have on this board........thinking way to much.

It's nice to come up with little theories that make us feel better, but you don't have empirical evidence (even if you have been used as a walking dildo).

Why is everybody concerned about other people?

That is the point of this thread.
 
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