"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I dont get how such nerds keep girls around

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Something I've really come to notice with guys I know who are dorks is they never get tons of girls but they eventually meet one girl who actually gives them a chance and the girl always has to initiate everything but these losers actually keep these girls around for 2+ years at a time. They just go shopping and buy the girl tons of stuff and literally spend EVERY minute of there life with the girl when they are not working and they give up on all there friends and hobbies except for working at a minimum wage job they hate and the girl.

How do these women not run for the hills is what blows me away. These guys are out of shape and eather skinny dweebs or fat aswell and they make the girl the total focal point of there lives. Then these guys have the nerve to tell me I'm a loser because I am single and I choose to be single then say how I am the one who is scared to talk to a girl yet they see me landing girls left and right that I approach.

So how the hell is it these dweebs even keep these girls around for years on end?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't get how such nerds keep girls around

Translation: Why can't I get girls to stick around, instead I'm masterbating at home? Why am I bytching about other people, whos (judging by my diatribe) happiness really affects me, and makes me question the validity of my view of my superiority?

Ever think

Maybe they know how to really fawk her?

Maybe they have a big ass shlong?

Maybe they remind her of her father?

Maybe they touch and fufill some internal need?

Why are you jealous? You are or you wouldn't have wasted your time posting a thread.

Here's the real questions you should be asking....

Could it be that when the girls I pull left and right get to know me they don't like me?

Could it be my body weight (or my face) doesn't make me superior to other people?

Could it be, my envy of my lessers (what i term nerds) stems from my inability to hold down a real relationship?

Maybe there isn't much to like about you. If your post is any indication of what your like in life, then I know there isn't.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok here it is and you have to believe this no matter how weird it may sound. IT is girls @ life.

She is focusing on her life. The nerd is a walking dildo. She saw somthing in her life or is being pressured by a familey member to solve. Like getting a career started. Going to school. Catching up on bills. She used to be a slut, or drugy, ect ect.

So what she does is pick a guy that is a safe bet and will be easy to walk away from.. Like smokers who go to Chewing when they quit because Chewing is nasty and easy to quit. She is hibernating with this guy and cutting all ties from the dating scene so she can focus on herself. Once she feels caught up she will end the relationship somhow. They are good at that she will most likelly make it out to be his fault. ect ect.

That is why it always seems to be a 2 year stint or 1.5 - 2.5 year stint.

True Story.
 

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nice theory

zero


That theory is.....how shall I say this.....crap.

Maybe some girls do this (and even then your not factoring in attraction).

Your post only highlights a problem alot of guys have on this board........thinking way to much.

It's nice to come up with little theories that make us feel better, but you don't have empirical evidence (even if you have been used as a walking dildo).

Why is everybody concerned about other people?

That is the point of this thread.
 
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