I don't feel the need to ask girls out for some reason, I'm not gay, I'm straight, it's just something I don't really do, of course I look at girls but nothing goes beyond that, I'm 18 and a freshman in college but I really doubt I'm getting a girlfriend before I graduate from college, and I've never had sex of course. I'm really not experienced with girls, I've only asked one girl out in my adolescence and I waited a long time to do it and it was only because I had been friends before and had got to know her, she said no of course, but we're still friends today, that was about a year and a half ago. I see nice looking girls here, generally Asians, but I just don't ever get to talk them and don't ever consciously think about asking them out. Getting married isn't a goal in my life, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't. It just seems weird that I'm like this because all my friends have had sex and have had or have girlfriends and I'm the only one of the friends who generally doesn't talk about girls. Why am I like this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't feel the need to ask girls out for some reason
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i suggest you start to change yourself and stop trying to tell yourself BS like not wanting it or if it happens, you gotta get out there and make it happen bro.
do the boot camp, change your body language get social and read how to attract girls.
do the boot camp, change your body language get social and read how to attract girls.
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Maybe you have other priorities that are more pressing than women. This is the way i was/am. However, being able to communicate and seduce women is a necessary skill, so I suggest learning it. Even if you don't want women now, you will in the future, and hopefully at that time you have enough experience to attract and date quality women.
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You're on no one's timetable but your own, Deicide. Just make sure that you're making your decisions for the reasons you choose, and not trying to justify inaction. However, I will say that this may be a time like no other for you to meet women and have some fun...and I'm guessing from your name that you aren't choosing abstinence for religious reasons.
Amen. You are making excuses for yourself and you actually believe them for some reason. Just admit you are scared of rejection or a relationship and overcome those fears.Modro said:i suggest you start to change yourself and stop trying to tell yourself BS like not wanting it or if it happens, you gotta get out there and make it happen bro.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, I'm an atheist that listens to death metal and Deicide is my favorite death metal band.Magnum Innominandum said:You're on no one's timetable but your own, Deicide. Just make sure that you're making your decisions for the reasons you choose, and not trying to justify inaction. However, I will say that this may be a time like no other for you to meet women and have some fun...and I'm guessing from your name that you aren't choosing abstinence for religious reasons.
Serialized3
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Death Metal Rules!!!:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
Yeah, it does, Black Metal is very good also.:rockon:Serialized3 said:Death Metal Rules!!!:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: