"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Don't Feel Like a Normal Person

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Sayajin_Prince

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I mean i'm 28 years old, i'm getting bald, older and stuff but the thing is mentally i'm not that age, not even close, inside i feel like an adolescent like i'm 18 or 19 years old. phisically despite of starting to get bald people give me 23 years old. I like adolescent stuff, like metal bands, baggy clothes, like younger girls between 18 and 21. Girls in their late 20's an 30's dont have appeal to me. I dont know guys, i like to do the crazy stuff i was unable to do when i was younger, because my dad protected to much, never had convos with girls with him, also my mother divorced him when i was very young, and also the fact that in school i was joked because of my closed and introverted personality. My friends say that i need to do a radical change, but i feel good this way despite of not having much luck with girls and having difficultes of getting a job ( despite of that being a major problem for all of us ).

Maybe they are right and i am wrong and vice versa. Just wanted to share my experience with you and get some oppinions on it. maybe some of you have passed or are passing trough similar experiences right now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm going on 42 and I think I'm fairly immature - just read some of my posts! Yeah, I like women under 25 - older women don't do much for me. 28 is not that far from 20 so I don't know why you sound like you are 60 years old. Hang out with younger guys and do as they do, they'll be younger girls there!
 
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I think that you should decide what you wanna do.

You don't feel normal, You feel immature, You don't wanna feel this way.


What do you wanna do? You wanna find a 19 year old and bang her? You want your hair back?

Put a goal in front of you. Imagine, if you could change your life easily, what would you wanna be in 6 months? How do you wanna feel? How would you know you've achieved what you've always wanted?

Once you're done that, determine where you are right now.

Once you do both of these things, you're gonna have a clear goal. Then decide how you wanna get there. Decide what your first step is gonna be.
 
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