"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't effing understand

Ziro

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Okay so I've been dating this girl for a while now.
She totally dug me so much more than I dug her at the beginning. Then I started to like her a lot and it was pretty much even. I go to college and she lives in my hometown, and I get home on weekends, so during the week I'd send her emails saying that I'm thinking of her. For the first month/month and a half it's awesome she totally digs me. Now over the past week or so things have cooled down on her side. I don't know what I've done wrong. I didn't get overly needy or anything it's just weird. I hadn't seen her in three weeks though. I don't know if that could be a problem and I told her that we were going on a date soon. She agreed to it yesterday. Said she'd call me today but didn't (and I know she had time to). She used to send me a lot of emails, now they're quite a bit fewer. I don't know if I should be worried or not (well I know I shouldn't be worried because it's not like she's all I think about or anything) I just want advice as to how I should handle to situation. I just want to know how to raise her interest again if that's even possible at this point. I don't like it when people flake on calling me - it really pisses me off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It happens, she's pulling back all you can do is pull back also and see if she comes back. Crowding her will only push her further away. You probably want some quick fix advice that'll make her be head over heels for you again which you won't find, just do your own thing.
 
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Ziro said:
I hadn't seen her in three weeks though. .
Are you sexing her??

Of course she has time to call - there are still 24 hours in a day right?

Dont contact or send her an e-mail or anything until she responds!! Never tell a girl that you "miss" her unless she asks!

Never ask a girl if she is seeing someone else - you won't get the truth if she is!! Always do reconnaissance first! Once you know the answer then ask!
 

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Once you find yourself in the situation where you are wondering what is going on with a girl, you're basically fvcked.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nonchalant said:
Once you find yourself in the situation where you are wondering what is going on with a girl, you're basically fvcked
Not anymore!:D
 
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