"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't care.

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Had a date last night. Went for a walk through the woods. She was very chatty. I'm laid back, Basically she has told me this morning that she feels our personalities are different so she dose'nt want to meet again.

I remember the feeling of being down when you get that text "youre a really nice guy, but i dont feel that spark" now i dont care as much. Instead of whining on here and feeling sorry for yourself. My mentality is i dont care, i am who i am, if she isnt interested, thats absolutley fine. I tried being playful/teasing with her, i took a risk and told her i wanted a cuddle and a kiss. I will continue to improve my playful teasing part of my game, but ultimatley i just feel like i am who i am. I remember a former member on here told me "never change who you are" i am who i am, i love who i am, wouldnt want to be anyone else. I'm unique.

I look forward to the future.

Maybe the younger guys on here might want to think about that. Dont get to down about it.

There are more things in life than women, maybe thats because i'm getting older.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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